Hi folks, here I am again after a pretty long interval. In this blog, I’m going to tell you how to lose weight the easy way—which is how I did it. I lost 8 kilos in 6 months!! I did not give up any of my favorite treats, which would just have made me crave it and then go a binge eating sooner or later, ate healthily and did some exercise- not anything back breaking- just for 30-45 minutes, 5-7 days a week. Do not weigh yourself every day as sometimes you might have put on a kilo or two and then you go—Oh shucks, I’ve been starving myself and breaking my back and I’ve PUT on weight??? No, I can’t do it. And that’s the end of your weight loss programme. So after a couple of months on my diet/exercise regime, people who I hadn’t seen in a while started commenting- Hey, you’ve lost weight, you look nice?—and I go like- Have I?-and yes it was then I noticed that my clothes were a bit loose on me, my arms felt and looked thinner and fitter—THEN I weighed my self and to my surprise, I had lost 4 kilos!! Now, this is a great incentive to one who has been over weight for like 10 years!!
Now here is what I did. You probably will not find this in any one Diet Regime book as it is not the usual ‘Count calories, no sugar, no oil/butter, no carbs’ kind of diet. It is a very practical diet,that you can follow without getting all tensed up when you think about food. Yes, there is some discipline to be followed because there is no magic formula to lose weight with a snap of your fingers, but it is simpler to follow and one that I have followed and my goal was achieved AND I am able to maintain it because it is so simple. And again, this diet is not for those who are physically very active—they need carbs for energy plus they burn them off. This diet is specifically for people who are not physically very active like those who sit in an office the whole day, in front of the computer or any other job that does not entail moving too much. You can zap the calories away but you have to move out of your comfort zone.
Let me give you a few tips which I picked up from Web MD:
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Tip No. 1: Drink plenty of water or other calorie-free beverages.
Before you tear into that bag of potato chips, drink a glass of water first. People sometimes confuse thirst with hunger, so you can end up eating extra calories when an ice-cold glass of water is really all you needed. If plain water doesn't cut it, try drinking flavored sparkling water or brewing a cup of fruit-infused herbal tea
Tip No. 2: Be choosy about nighttime snacks.
Mindless eating occurs most frequently after dinner, when you finally sit down and relax. Snacking in front of the TV is one of the easiest ways to throw your diet off course. Either close down the kitchen after a certain hour, or allow yourself a low-calorie snack, like a 100-calorie pack of cookies or a half-cup scoop of low-fat ice cream.
Tip No. 3: Enjoy your favorite foods. 
Instead of cutting out your favorite foods altogether, be a slim shopper. Buy one fresh bakery cookie instead of a box, or a small portion of candy from the bulk bins instead of a whole bag. You can still enjoy your favorite foods -- the key is moderation.
Tip No. 4: Eat several mini-meals during the day.
If you eat fewer calories than you burn, you'll lose weight. But when you're hungry all the time, eating fewer calories can be a challenge. "Studies show people who eat 4-5 meals or snacks per day are better able to control their appetite and weight," says obesity researcher Rebecca Reeves, Dr PH, RD. She recommends dividing your daily calories into smaller meals or snacks and enjoying most of them earlier in the day -- dinner should be the last time you eat.
Tip No. 5: Eat protein at every meal.
Protein is the ultimate fill-me-up food -- it's more satisfying than carbs or fats and keeps you feeling full for longer. It also helps preserve muscle mass and encourages fat burning. So be sure to incorporate healthy proteins like lean meat, yogurt, cheese, nuts, or beans into your meals and snacks
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Tip No. 6: Stock your kitchen with healthy, convenient foods.
Having ready-to-eat snacks and meals-in-minutes on hand sets you up for success. You'll be less likely to hit the drive-through or order a pizza if you can throw together a healthy meal in five or 10 minutes. Here are some essentials to keep on hand: frozen vegetables, whole-grain pasta, reduced-fat cheese, canned tomatoes, canned beans, pre-cooked grilled chicken breast, whole grain tortillas or pitas, and bags of salad greens
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Tip No. 7: Swap a cup of pasta for a cup of vegetables.
Simply by eating less pasta or bread and more veggies, you could lose a dress or pants size in a year. "You can save from 100-200 calories if you reduce the portion of starch on your plate and increase the amount of vegetables," says Cynthia Sass, RD, a spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association
Tip No. 8: Always eat breakfast. 
It seems like an easy diet win: Skip breakfast and you'll lose weight. Yet some studies show the opposite can be true. Not eating breakfast can make you hungry later, leading to too much nibbling and binge eating at lunch and dinner. To lose weight -- and keep it off -- always make time for a healthy morning meal, like high-fiber cereal, low-fat milk, and fruit.
Tip No. 9: Clean the cupboards of fattening foods.
If you have chips in the pantry and ice cream in the freezer, you're making weight loss harder than it has to be. Reduce temptation by purging the cupboards of fattening foods. Want an occasional treat? Make sure you have to leave the house to get it -- preferably by walking.
Tip No. 10: Eat more fruits and vegetables.
The best "diet" is one where you get to eat more food, not less. If you eat more fruits and vegetables, you shouldn't feel as hungry because these nutrient-rich foods are also high in fiber and water, which can give you a feeling of fullness. Snacking can be a good thing as long as you choose smart snacks
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Tip No. 11: Chew sugarless gum.
The next time you want to grab a fattening snack, reach for some sugar-free gum instead. Chewing some types of gum gives you fresh breath and can also help manage hunger, control snack cravings, and aid in weight loss. Although gum might make you eat less, it doesn't mean you can stop eating right. A good diet and exercise are still important
Tip No. 12: Celebrate success (but not with food).
You lost five pounds this month and walked every other day? Time to celebrate! Rewarding weight loss success really can encourage more success, so revel in your achievements. Buy a CD, take in a movie, and set a prize for the next milestone. Just don't celebrate with a sundae or deep dish pizza.
Never skip a meal!! If you have had a heavy meal the previous day and are feeling guilty about it, go easy with the next- have a bowl of fruits, a protein shake- Starvation only makes you binge later. Plus your metabolism takes a dive, so does your blood sugar and the body hangs on to every bit of what you eat the next time, converting it to fat We need your metabolism to stay steady and high all the time- the idea of eating several mini meals instead of 3 big meals.
Well, without beating about the bush, let me tell you what I do and it worked for me, so I’m sure it will work for you too. Basically:
GIVE UP Rice, rotis, breads- yes even whole wheat bread- And ofcourse do not ever eat refined flour like Maida/Self Raising/ plain flour. We, in India, love our rotis- chappatis- and rice. We eat less of the accompaniments and more of the main ingredient- rice and roti. We need carbs but we can get them in other foods, eat them and don’t put on weight, like Vegetables- good carbs- you can eat kilos of them and get away. Now I’m sure, all you people out there will say: “Oh, I knew this was too good to be true. I hate veggies.” Well folks, I am not saying eat them raw, or live on salads—that's a sure way to go into depression - Use a little bit of oil- a teaspoon or two- and cook the veggies anyway you like, sauté them, make a thick, tasty gravy and add all kinds veggies to it, add grated, fresh coconut, be innovative, look up recipes on the net and make mouth watering vegetable dishes, you can even add a tablespoon of cream so it really tickles your palate- rich uh?—then pile up your plate with it and eat away. Now to satisfy yourself psychologically, you may have a quarter of a roti OR one tablespoon of rice ONLY, to accompany your veggie dish. Do not have any more of the rice or roti or chappati.
Now for your proteins, you can have eggs- yes they are good for you but don’t eat them everyday. Maybe once or two times a week. You can steam fish, add spices, make cutlets out of them and shallow fry/ bake and freeze them so you can have them a couple of times a week, low fat cheese, low fat yogurt. Vegetarians can have idlis, dosas—though not the complete protein dish, it’s ok, you can make up the protein in other foods
Do not avoid Fats—they are not the plague. Your body needs fats to keep your skin supple and soft, to keep you warm.. Now good fats are nuts- walnuts, almonds, pistachios, even cashewnuts- but remember nuts have calories so just snack on them- 10-12 per day. Avocados are very good too, Extra virgin Olive oil is excellent- drizzle it over your salads but remember, it too has calories—so go easy with it.
Ok, so enough of the theory part of it. Let me tell you how I go about balancing and eating all that I have been telling you about.—Let me remind you, you will not find this in any book. There are people who may contradict this or prefer to go about it in a more scientific way—which is fine but it has not really helped a lot of people as it is difficult to give up ALL your favorite foods, forever!!.
When you wake up in the morning after fasting for like 8 hours, drink two huge glasses of warm water with half a lemon squeezed into it. 15 minutes later, have your breakfast before the body goes into starvation mode, wondering if it it going to get any food.
The foods you can have for breakfast are: Now this is what I did—
A cup of any kind of cereal, with raisins, almonds and fruit, and add low-fat milk, chop up a banana if you like—add a tsp of low calorie sweetener if you have a sweet tooth.
Or, have 2 eggs- anyway you wish- boiled, poached, fried in just ¼ tsp Olive oil, scramble them with onions, tomatoes, chillies, mushrooms and eat them but with NO bread. Just two eggs are pretty filling and will keep you going till 10AM or even later. Now you can have bread if you can’t do without it, IF you are willing to work out to burn the calories you are accumulating with it.
Fish cutlets cooked as above- you can have two or even three of them with a bit of tomato sauce- again NO bread.
Vegetarians- 2 idlis, 1 dosa- have this with chutney of your choice and sambhar with lots of vegetables, one cup Upma, poha—but remember all these must be made with not more than 1tsp of oil.
Now you can accompany this with a glass of fresh Orange juice, or grape juice, vegetable juice- all with no sugar—add no- calorie sweetener if needed. Coffee drinkers can have a cup of coffee with low fat milk- or tea- again no sugar.
10AM- have a small snack- nuts, a small bowl of fruits, and you know what I sneak in a bit of savory at times like maybe a couple of times a week- just so I don’t crave for it- you can have a little of anything you like- but remember, moderation is the key- it is just to satisfy your taste buds so you don’t crave for it and binge-eat.
Lunch- NO RICE- NO ROTIS. Pile up your plate with your vegetable dish,.Or fish- curried, baked, shallow fried. Or grilled chicken, tandoori chicken, chicken curry—any way you like it. Salads- as much as you want.
4PM- A cup of tea with a couple of digestive biscuits. Fruits..
7.30pm- dinner- same as lunch—you can make variations.
Now, I have a bit of chocolate after lunch, because I love chocolates. Like say a kit-kat- two bars of a four bar kit kat everyday!! And with this my craving for sweets is satisfied. So you can have any sweet of your choice- ice cream, a bit of any Indian sweet—like I said, moderation is the key to it. You don't have to go cold turkey on sweets altogether- a little bit now and then won't do any harm. Besides, the quantity of food you are having at lunch/ dinner is pretty low in calories.
Having told you what you must eat daily, try to stick to this for 6 days in the week—you can pig out on one meal on the 7th day—eat whatever you want, satisfy all those cravings – then go back to your healthy, moderate eating. Try this. It’s simple and doable. This does not adhere to any of your standard diet books or regime but it is a very practical, easy, tried and tested way of losing weight. Once you see the kilos falling away, you looking great in all kinds of clothes, your old clothes hanging loose on your body—gives you the kind of thrill that nothing else does and you have the incentive to keep at it. Once you start losing weight and learn how to balance your diet, believe me, it is very simple.
Now this is not all. You have to burn the little extra calories that you are putting in. Besides, if you just try to lose weight by eating less, your muscles will not get the tone it needs to look good. This, I will cover in my next blog. I can hear you going—I knew it. It was too good to be true. But don’t lose heart. It won’t be that back breaking kind of working out. Meet you soon.